While therapeutic relationships can bring about feelings of closeness, intimacy or attraction, it is the nurse’s responsibility to maintain professional boundaries and not pursue these feelings.
In the nurse-patient relationship, nurses hold a position of power by virtue of having: professional knowledge and skills patients rely on for their well-being, such as performing physical assessments and accessing patient’s personal health information. Because of this power, any sexual or romantic relationship a nurse has with a patient is abuse and professional misconduct. It does not matter if the patient agrees to the sexual acts.
To manage a situation like this, you can:
- Be clear with yourself about your feelings, and any limitations or risks they may create. Self-reflection is important: recognizing these feelings lets you take proactive steps to ensure you don’t cross a boundary
- Speak with a colleague or a manager
- Consider if another nurse ought to provide care for the patient
Remember, the law says that someone is considered a patient for one year after the nurse-patient relationship ends. This means you cannot have a relationship at any time while caring for the patient, or for a full year after care has ended.